I think in this case when I wrote, "right words" I couldn't and still can't find the words to express what I ment and feeling. So there aren't any wrong words in this case, just words that more fully express the content than others.

And I'm not afraid of fluidity, it's just the words that I was thinking of were all beinging to mean the same thing, and no new words had moved in to communicate what those words had ment. A meaning vacuum, of a sort.